Understanding loneliness

How common is loneliness?

Loneliness touches every age and every country. Here are the most reliable numbers from the WHO, the U.S. Surgeon General and Gallup.

Do this first

If you feel alone right now, remember this: millions of people feel the same way today, in every country and at every age. Feeling alone is common. It is not a sign that you are failing.

When you feel alone, it can seem like everyone else has friends, plans and people to call. The numbers tell a different story. Loneliness is one of the most common human experiences on earth.

Different surveys ask different questions, so their numbers do not match exactly. That is normal. What matters is that every large study finds the same thing: a lot of people feel this way.

Around the world

In 2025 the World Health Organization (WHO) published the report of its Commission on Social Connection. It found:

A separate global survey by Gallup and Meta, covering 142 countries, found that of people aged 15 and older felt very or fairly lonely. At the same time, felt very or fairly connected to others. Both can be true: many people feel connected in some ways and lonely in others.

In the United States

  • The U.S. Surgeon General's 2023 advisory reported that of U.S. adults reported measurable loneliness, even before the COVID-19 pandemic.
  • In a 2024 Gallup survey, of U.S. adults said they felt lonely "a lot of the day yesterday".
  • According to the National Academies, Americans aged 65 and older who live in the community (not in care homes) are socially isolated.

Less time with friends

The Surgeon General's advisory used the American Time Use Survey, a large government survey of how people spend their days. It found that Americans spent a day in person with friends in 2020, down from in 2003. For people aged 15 to 24, time with friends fell by , the biggest drop of any age group.

The 2020 numbers include the start of the pandemic, but the decline began long before it.

Every age group

Loneliness is often pictured as an older person's problem. The research does not support that.

GroupWhat surveys find
Teens and young adults (13 to 29)WHO: report feeling lonely, with teenagers highest
Adults 19 to 29, worldwideGallup-Meta: very or fairly lonely
Adults 65 and older, worldwideGallup-Meta: very or fairly lonely
U.S. men aged 15 to 34Gallup: lonely a lot of the previous day, against for all U.S. adults
Men and women, worldwideGallup-Meta: about each

Older adults are more likely to be isolated (living alone, losing a spouse, health problems). Younger people are often more likely to feel lonely. Both matter. For your age group, see Loneliness across generations.

Rich and poor, city and country

Loneliness shows up everywhere: in wealthy nations and poor ones, in big cities and small villages. Money does not protect anyone from it, though money worries can make it worse (see Money worries, job loss and low income). People in rural areas can be far from others, while people in big cities can feel alone among millions.

Why the numbers matter to you

  • You are not strange or broken. Hundreds of millions of people share this feeling.
  • The people around you may feel it too. The coworker, neighbor or classmate who seems fine may be waiting for someone to say hello first.
  • Governments and health agencies now treat it as a real health issue, not a personal weakness. That is why there is more help than there used to be.

Try one this week

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  • Chances are good they would welcome it.

  • Many people answer, "Me too."

Where to go next

Sources

Last reviewed: October 9, 2026